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o Timeline of 1998 through present 2003
o First communicated with Kathleen via email
o First communicated with Kathleen via phone
o Getting picture of her with KM and Julie on tire swing (love at first sight)
• First Experience with KM on phone
• Meeting Kathleen 1st time
o Arrangements to visit Kathleen in Enumclaw
 Where to stay
• Apartment versus Motel
o Flying into Seattle
 Drinking V-8
 Pilot Announcing over Enumclaw
 Wondering how I would recognize her
o Seeing her
o Stopping on Bridge
o Drive through Seattle
 Holding hands
 Touching
 Stroking/Petting
o Lockes
 First Kiss
 Calling Kris
o Coming to her home in Enumclaw
 Meeting Kris
o Talking at Motel
• Another visit to Enumclaw
o Necking in Goodwill parking lot
 Cop pulling in while we were there
o Condom in Kathleen’s back pocket
• IM’s and Emails with Kathleen
• Phone calls with Kathleen
o First frustrations
• 1st Weekend visit to Enumclaw
• Kris’ first apartment
• KM’s First Apartment
o Working with KM on application
o Talking to Chuck to help get things done
• KM moves
o Meeting Clell (sp??)
• Meeting Julie 1st time
o Trailer in Puyallup??
o Resteraunt she worked at
o Moving her from next place along I-5 near Tacoma
• Meeting Michelle 1st time
• Meeting Karin 1st time
o Questions just like Kathleen warned
o Wanting me to go to dance with her
• Tim
o Tim finding me the first time
o Chat with Tim and Kathleen together in private room
o Emails and phone calls with Tim
o All night phone call
o All night emails
• Robin
o Robin's trip to Las Vegas
o Robin's summer in CA at condominium
o Robin's bug breaking down and me going back to get it
 Karen Pridham’s husband and Glenn rescueing me
o The end with Robin
o Moving out
• John Z.
o My room
o John’s house
o Roommate – cook
o Roommate – favorite movie Seven Deadly Sins - sicko movie
• Kris
o 1st meeting of Kris (home on couch)
o 1st Dinner (a bit strained)
• Bill
o Hearing what he did to Kathleen when Kathleen and I were at motel my first visit to Enumclaw
o Calling house 1st time and I not acknowledging a Kathie lived there (oops – honestly it did not register with me – no one probably believes this, but it was the honest to God truth). How to win friends and influence people – not to mention tick off ex’s!
o Bill calling while Kathleen and I drive to Portland
o Bill calling while we are at restaurant (what was the name of this one??) in San Francisco on trip to pickup his black Chevrolet Lumina
• 1st meeting of Bill (SEATAC airport)
• Chuck
• 1st meeting with Chuck in AZ
• Chuck’s visit to Renton
• 1st phone conversations with Dawn in Las Vegas (Chuck’s wife)
• Emails with Bill
• 1st meeting of Julie
• Trip to Oregon to meet Bud
• 1st call from Bill
• 1st meeting of Jeremy (San Jose Airport)
• 1st meeting of Todd (wedding)
• Honeymoon in San Juan
• Week of Stomach Flu
• Aaron
• David
• Mary
• Daniel
• Naomi
• House in Enumclaw
• Move to Renton
• Temporary Work
• Voicestream
• T-Mobile USA, Inc.
• Vans
• Bill’s Car
• RX7
• Michael Kaden
• Kathleen’s ankle
• Kathleen’s shoulder surgery
• Dennis Broken Heel
• Move back to Enumclaw
• Child Support Hearing 1
• Child Support Hearing 2
• Trip to Jeremy’s with Kid’s
• Trip to Florida with Todd and Jeromy
• Trip to Dad’s for bed
• Trip to Mom’s with Kids
• Trip to Move KM to Sacramento, including visit to Ruthie’s
• KM to jail to visit ??
• Birth of Micahel Kaden
• Kaden’s dad – David, in prison for bomb threats
• The step-grandfather of Kaden killed
• The uncle of Kaden (boyfriend to KM while David in Prison) killed
• Jennifer’s dad – Greg, professional car thief, in and out of jail
• William’s dad – Jeromy, brain fried on drugs
• Cora’s dad – Dave, petty criminal, in and out of jail
• KM’s Indian friend and dad of unborn child
• William’s birthday party 2003
• Greg and the missing car August 27, 2003
• Kaden back with us August 21, 2003
• KM in hospital night Kathleen and I are to leave for somewhere??
• KM in hospital (drug exposure??)
• KM in hospital (stomach pains??)
• Julie in hospital – I go to hold her hand while she gets IV
• David’s appendectomy
• Kris’ unemployment 1st
• Kris’ unemployment 2nd with Kids at his house
• Kids and T-Mobile USA party summer of 2003
• Camping Summer 2003
• Summer of my kids visit when Kathleen sprained her ankle
• Summer my kids spend 2 months in Enumclaw
o Airfare cheaper to buy two round trip so kids fly back to Phoenix with me while I go to UOP graduation
o Robin physically takes the kids for night
• DS quitting UOP
o Layer advise
o Calling UOP
o Talking to Brian??
o Correspondence??
• Kathleen’s mother’s house
o Cooking there
o Fixing yard
o Getting DSL for house
o Fixing computer install heard drive
o Fixing Wireless network with Kathleen in San Francisco (or not fixing)
o Wiring network for DSL
o What to do with yard waste
• Kathleen/Dennis problems
o I want everyday/she doesn’t
o I scold kids/she makes excuses for them
• Expedited Child Support hearing on January 9, 2003
o Joke
o Count both my incomes
o Reduction very, very minimal
o I get two tax exemptions for two kids
• Child support hearing July 2003 while Kathleen and I are in San Francisco and Jeremy and Ty are in Hawaii.
• Ryan’s visit to Renton house
o New year’s eve – Ryan and KM
• 1st Fourth of July in Enumclaw
• 1st Fourth of July in Renton
• Camping with too many mosquitos
• Daniel’s bike getting stolen
• RX7 overheating in Fresno, etc. - July 2003
• RX7 brake problems in Gilroy -uly 2003
• KM little vacation for week where where she gets pregnant with Kaden
o Needed a week to try it with this guy
• KM goes to Sacramento, CA
o Kathleen and I meet Jeremy there to move her in
 Jeremy funding this move
 Jeremy paying her rent
o KM has abortion in CA??
o KM gets jaw broken by black guy in Sacramento
o Kathleen and I move KM stuff from storage in Sacramento
• Birth of Kaden
• First 6 months (how long did we have Kaden??) with Kaden
• Julie moves to Florida
o We store her stuff in Renton garage
o Send computer to her in Florida
o Trip to Florida with Todd and Jeremy to resuce Julie
 Walking the apartment complex looking for William and Jennifer
 Man at door where William was
• Hold on a minute, then comes to door in just underware (bottoms only)
 Nice lady Jennifer was with
 Lady with Julies stuff (a little weird)
 Todd and I track Julie down at psychiatric place(s)
 I leave town with William and Jennifer and fly back through Chicago to Seattle
 William and Jennifer stay at our house a month while Julie recooperates at Jeremy’s in San Francisco
 Julie lives at our house with William, Jennifer, at same time we have Kaden
 Tent in backyard for Daniel then Julie and her kids
o Julie moves out to apartment in Renton with??
 He moves out 2 days later??
• Bill and the shoes for ?? from Eluxury and Louis Vitton
o Shipping
o Export
o Cost
• Bill visit with ??
o Shopping sprees
o Leaving stuff for boys to ship
• Julie and Romanian friend
o Kathleen said watch out, but Jeremy said the Romanians are ok
o Freaking weird dude
o He keeps coming back
o He is admitted??
• Julie and Cal (July/August 2003)
o Cal’s car disappears with Greg one night August 27, 2003
• KM calls me to ask how to wire TV through stereo 11:30pm August 26, 2003
• My problems
• Kathleen’s problems
• Aaron’s problems
• David’s pro blems
• Mary’s problems
• Daniel’s problems
• Kris’ problems
• Naomi’s problems
• Karin Moses’s problems (Kathleen’s sister married Mark Moses)
• Mark Moses’ problems
• Mary Reidell’s problems
o Mary’s cell phone dials home without her knowing it
o Mary moves to Mexico
o Mary comes back from Mexico
o Mary moves to Carson City, NV
• Ncik Reidell’s problems
o Job with aquarium cleaning
 Not getting paid
• My calling Oregon Attorney General for details
o Job with carpet cleaning company
 Fired because broke something
• George Reidell’s problems
• Cameron Reidell’s problems
• Church help from Bishop Dane Bean
• Church welfare storehouse
o Making order
o Picking up order
o Good/Bad of food/supplies
• Tithing
• Teaching Sunday School to 13 year olds in Renton
o Daniel in class
• Income Taxes
o My exemptions for grandkids Cora, Kaden, Jennifer, William
o Fight with Robin for 2002 exemption for Alexis
o Fight with Taryn for exemption in ??
o Fight with Ryan for exemption for tax year 2001??
• Finances
o Loan with Dad
o Loan with Mom
o Balance transferring funds
o Stock in Drugstore.com
• Teaching at UOP
• Mysteries - some unanswered family mysteries
o Uncle Walter Spence
o Ron Spence
o My Dad – Harold Spence
 Real relationship with Ron
 Previous wives
 Life in his home
• Dark Deep Past – better forgotten but mentioned here for posterity
• Kathleen’s genealogy work
o Grandmother’s paperwork
o Working each line of her ex’s for the kids
o Findings
o How she uses the computer
• Genealogy trip to Freson July 2003 to Aunt ??
• Visit to Cemetery in Portland
• Visit to Bud’s outside of Portland
o Spending the night in the hotel together in Portland
o Kathleen’s naiveness of Bud’s intentions
o Buying bud the computer and all
o Kathleen seeing me undress that night
o Kathleen downstairs while I was on Balcony looking out
o Bud driving us around
o Dinner (yuck) at Appleby’s with Kathleen only (never go there again)
• Good-bye’s at the airports
• Christmas
• Thanksgiving
• Kathleen comes to AZ to drive with me to our wedding and to WA
o Her night at my final math class
o Driving wildly on LA freeway was make-out??
o Getting marriage license with no home for me
o Stopping in San Juan the day before the wedding
o The wedding
 Dad kinda late
 The judge
 The weather
 Mom and Aunt Angie
 Dinner at the Chinese restarant – Dad paid!
 Going for Orange Juice as Kathleen showered
 Disappointment the first night
 The drive home and Kathleen almost upset with failure of 1st night
• The first days together in Enumclaw
o The house
o The kids
o Meals
o Looking for work – after taking a week off
o The commute
o Temporary Work in Bellevue
o Everyone gets the flu but me….until after everyone gets over then I get it good
• Life gets better in bed for Kathleen and me
o Learn how to do it together
o Frequency
o Desire
o While sick with flu a new way
o Never see her
• Kids to Kris’s apartment every other weekend
• The first time Kathleen said she wanted to go with Kris to do something with kids
• The birthday party at Kris’ apartment I dropped Kathleen off and cruised around waiting for them to get done.
• The continuous fights we have because she wants to do stuff with Kris and the kdis
• Kris at house while Kathleen there in 2003 when he is supposed to be at work
• Kris’ bishop
o Meeting with him
o Talking to him on phone
o Asking for him to help Kris
o The butt does little or nothing
• The story of Ryan’s Piano
• The Dryer from Costco
• Kaden’s Birth
• Kris brake light problem on the Suburban
• Rubbing Kathleen’s feet and legs with her pantyhose on
• Trying the Astro Glide bottle in Kathleen
• Working with Keith Olsen and Leak Detectives all night long
• Program Manager Certification
• Plan of escape
• Disappearing act